Speaking One of the Five Languages of Love

Speaking One Of The Five Languages Of Love

By: Vanscoy Diamonds

  Many Universities will send parents of college students mailers about purchasing a ‘his’ or ‘her’ care package.  These are nice, but tend to be generic in creation. If your son or daughter has a true ‘love language’ of gift-giving then you’ll really want to personalize a box sent to them. Where did this term come from? Gary Chapman is the author of Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate, and is actually geared as a communication book for married and soon-to-be married couples.  However, this shouldn’t sway you from using it as an effective means of communication for any close personal relationship that you may have if you know that person well enough to identify what their love language is. If your child’s love language is gift giving you can identify this by seeing how they express their love to you and others. Are they always trying to give you little trinkets or treasures even when it isn’t your birthday or a special occasion?  Do they take great pride in buying their friends just the right gift for a holiday- something very personal?  If this is the case than while the standard mail-order care package will no doubt be appreciated, something more personal may really reflect to your child that you are missing them. With Van Scoy Jewelry we have a wide range of beautiful jewelry and gifts that will go easy on your pocket book and that your child can hold dear while at college or abroad studying. Some of the most common school colors are black, blue, brown, green, red and white.  Does this hold true for your child’s alma mater? If so here are some suggestions by color we at Van Scoy hope you find inspirational for your gift giving ideas. Black: For him, this gents black ion plated stainless steel and black cable bracelet will make an excellent addition to any masculine ensemble. For her, this beautiful costume jewelry piece by designer Greg Anthony is a sterling silver, black agate cabashaw ring. Blue: For him, this gentleman’s gold, London blue topaz and diamond ring is impressively handsome. For her, Honora pearls are an elegant addition to her wardrobe; this is an 18” freshwater cultured pearl strand. Brown: For him, we have this ion plated, stainless steel & white gold cross on a 30” beaded chain. For her, may we suggest this beautiful white and chocolate diamond heart 14K gold pendant? Green: For him, this Men's Lum-Tec Combat B5 watch, stainless steel case construction, heavy gauge nato nylon strap, black dial 26/22 size MDV technology, Swiss made Ronda quartz 24hr movement. Real carbon fiber dial, limited numbered series of 100, will have a patented, bright green glow for easy reading in the dark. For her, by Greg Anthony in our Metal Marketplace, this pear shaped green amethyst, sterling silver and 18K gold pendant design is sure to be pleasing. Red: For him, we suggest a handsome Mozambique garnet ring in 14K yellow-gold with polished finish. For her, we feature another gorgeous Mozambique garnet with diamond accents in an 8x6 pendant. White: For him, these stainless steel and white cufflinks add professional panache and will go far when it’s time to interview for that post-college career. For her, the ever popular white, Mabe pearl, drop earrings in sterling silver are always a fashion must. Yellow: For both him and her we have yellow-gold signet rings. Personalize the ring by having your son or daughter’s initials or school initials engraved on the top.  Signet rings have been passed down through generations and make a great heirloom gift that your son or daughter will be sure enjoy.