There are only a few things that can make or break a proposal. One: a poorly thought-out plan to make it special and two: a poorly chosen engagement ring. While making the moment special is completely up to you, your jeweler can help you make sure that the ring is the perfect ring for her. There are just a few things you should know before you even begin to shop… [caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="255"] Diamond Engagement Rings[/caption]

1. Be sure that the jeweler you choose is trusted and reputable. While there seems to be a jewelry store on nearly every corner, the artisan you choose should be the type of person you would trust with thousands of your hard earned dollars. Staying away from chain jewelry stores to avoid “cookie cutter” engagement rings is highly recommended, and, in fact, encouraged.
2. Learn the basics of fine jewelry, specifically diamonds if your intention is to give the love of your life a diamond engagement ring. You don't have to become a jeweler to know what you're talking about when you start shopping. The four C's of diamonds are simple, easy to learn and will help you at least sound like you've done your homework when you're looking at a huge array of diamond engagement rings.
3. While tradition is to spend a certain percentage of your annual salary for an engagement ring, bringing a heap of debt into a new marriage can spell disaster. Unless the antiquated practice of the bride's parents footing the bill for the wedding is a part of your reality, keep in mind that the wedding, reception and all the bells and whistles of the wedding day could break the bank. Set a realistic and manageable budget for the engagement ring in addition to the festivities of your special day.
4. You are about make an investment in your future. Treat the purchase of your engagement ring as such and protect it. Schedule an appraisal for insuring the engagement ring and regular preventative maintenance with your jeweler as soon as the ring is on her finger. There is absolutely nothing more disappointing than a lost diamond. Your jeweler is trained to spot cracked prongs or loosening stones and will also keep the wedding ring sparkling like it did when you first went to one knee.